I mean, there's a lot to unpack here:
1. To say that receiving disease-ridden plants from all vendors is an universal experience is, plan and simple, wrong. That is not to say I've not received plants with mealybugs and mites from other vendors (all of whom would, without a question, issue a coupon or refund for the value of the affected plant...as the customer has paid the declared amount for a *healthy* plant and expecting a hobby grower to play around with chemicals such as imidacloprid isn't a given, and if the plant is not extremely rare or valuable to me, I'll simply send it to compost graveyard. Not to mention that having sap-sucking insects around, even in a separate room, is a great way to introduce orchid viruses into your home/environment). Spider mites are extremely small and mealybugs hide between the leaves so in case of a lighter infestation, I'm aware that it can go unnoticed to the seller, however, when a plant is heavily infested with many of them actively walking around, you'll have a very hard time convincing me that whoever was packing the order didn't notice them and simply decided "who cares" and just shipped them as they are.
I will also say I've ordered, at this point, probably hundreds of plants from Schwerter, from multitude of orchid genera, none and I mean *none* were infested, so it's obviously possible to maintain proper greenhouse hygiene and avoid outbreaks. Same is true for orders made from the late Mr. Popow's shop, always impeccable.
2. Issues with "out-of-stock" are not how customer orders should be handled. Obviously, mistakes in inventory record keeping do happen, but when you notice that a plant is no longer in stock, you should inform the buyer *before* shipping the order. This is literally a standard way of doing things that I've encountered in every other (orchid and non-orchid related) shop I bought from. Especially so when you're charging 30+ € for shipping and it makes no sense for the customer to pay an additional 30+€ at a later time just to have the missing plant shipped, it's ludicrous. Added comedy bonus is that, even as I was made aware that the plant is no longer in stock, it continued to be displayed as "in-stock" on the website for the following weeks and might be even now as well. Not only that, but a literal one minute Google search shows that someone else who's had another issue with this shop also received the same reply about Paph. armeniacum going out of stock, and this was 7 months ago:
3. I'm fully aware of the credit card chargeback option being provided by the bank and, as explained above, this would have been my next step if escalated. But seriously, what kind of level of customer service are we talking about when you have to resort to such moves? If you went to a restaurant, got served two burnt dishes and were additionally charged for one of the dishes that was not even served, and then had to spend a few hours arguing with the restaurant management over the excess charge while having to threaten them with calling the police and a bank chargeback, would you consider that a great experience just because in the end they agreed to refund the excess charge? I certainly wouldn't.
Obviously, as with everything, personal experiences will vary, but as someone who both runs a small, non-orchid related, business and has also been online shopping, both orchid and non-orchid stuff, for some 10+ years now and in the ballpark of 500+ different kinds of purchases, I can without a doubt say that I've never had such a poor customer experience so far. Now, maybe I was extremely (un)lucky but I certainly won't be spending another cent at the Exotic Plant Company