First of all, oh my GOSH does this thing waste water. I have filled two 5 gallon buckets with waste water and don't think I even have a gallon of RO yet.
I don’t know their setup, but typical permeate:brine ratios are in the 1:3 - 1:4 range. However, all of the specifications are at 65 psi/77F water at the membrane. Colder and/or lower pressure slows the flow through the membrane, decreasing the efficiency. It’s typically not worth the effort to boast the pressure or temperature unless they are extremely low, but the efficiency can be improved by using a slightly smaller restrictor on the flush water (brine) outlet. I‘d be happy to help with that, if you’re interested.
Interesting that the waste water reads at about 265 tds, still a bit better than the 400 straight from the tap
That simply means your meter is reading it differently. The brine now contains the dissolved solids rejected from the purified stuff, so has increased.
I have read that the higher the supply pressure, the more efficient the system. I have no idea what my water pressure is but I thought it was very high. Am I going to have to go buy a $15 pressure gauge that I'll never use again?
A positive note is that the system is filtering the water down to 0 ppm total dissolved solids according to my meter.
Do you think if I remove the de-ionizing stage, it will produce at a better ratio, but with an increase in tds? I guess I could try it.
If your tap water has decent pressure for a shower and faucets, there is no need to measure it.
You absolutely do not need the DI column, and it will get fouled and need replacement more quickly than the filters and membrane. Yes, the TDS will increase to probably no more than 20 ppm, which is fine for plants, and the water usage will also improve.
Understand the operation of RO systems: there is one raw water inlet and two outlets, permeate (purified) and brine (flush water). The brine outlet has a fixed flow restrictor that creates the back-pressure that pushes water through the membrane. That is fixed, so the flow through it is more-or-less constant at all temperatures and pressures. The flow through the pure water side is variable - anything that decreases the flow - low temperature, low pressure, or the DI cartridge - reduces the efficiency.